'Maturity' is something which should grow as we get into each and every steps of life. Present generation kids are mostly over-matured which is troublesome sometimes and immaturity is also a problem among some human beings. When I mean maturity as a term, here it signifies to how correctly we are reacting to the situation, how correctly we are taking decisions in our life, how much stubborn we are in our decisions and so on. In general this term shapes a human being to the great extent.
When do we feel that we are getting matured mentally? When I have taken a correct decision in my future career? Or When I am able to maintain my decency in public? Or When I am true to my family? Or When I support my family on all circumstances? Or When I am able to learn from my mistakes and correct myself? It’s very simple. When your activities and course of action yields you positive results for the above questions, it’s a sign of maturity in our self. Not only these questions, there are so many like these, which tests our mental stability. And when we are able to clear all these tests without anyone’s guidance then we are definitely matured.
Most of them feel that at present they are not fully matured. But however we are getting matured day by day. The situations and problems what we face in our daily life creates a sort of mental stability in our self which in turn guides us to take correct decisions. So unless and until we face any situation in our life, it’s difficult to plan a course of action. First time for the same situation we would have taken a wrong decision, however when we face the same situation again our mind tends to eliminate the wrong decision what we had taken first. So in this way maturity comes to play in our life.
Friends of my age used to tell me that when they stay alone, they have to take their own decisions and they have to plan for themselves everyday. So in this way they feel that they are getting matured. But were the decisions taken are correct? They have no one to guide them for the first time. Sometimes those hasty decisions will overlook its impacts.
First stage of maturity needed an emphatic listening and correct understanding of the situation or problem. The second stage needed a well planned course of action and final stage needed a fine-tuning of our activities in accordance to the situation. When we are able to cope-up our self to all the three stages, it gives us an inference of good matured thinking.
I remember one saying on maturity stated by William Stekel. It’s a good saying. This is where matured person distinguishes himself from an immature person.
‘The immature man wants to die nobly for a cause, while the mature man wants to live humanely for one’
Well educated people sometimes tend to take wrong decisions. It’s because they are not matured enough to find out the correct solution/decision. I would conclude by saying that higher level of maturity in every individual helps them to lead a disciplined, dignified and a happier life.
Tuesday, November 10, 2009
Friday, November 6, 2009
Trekking has shown us the mind-blowing, different & beautiful Ooty.
‘Nature at its best!!!’ I would say when I had a chance to visit the different and very rare lovely spots in Ooty which I haven’t heard of in my life, not only for me but also for everyone. When it comes to Ooty, what comes to everyone’s mind is that the lovely botanical garden with beautiful flower shows and chill climate.
When I planned my trip with my colleagues to Ooty, we have also decided to go and hit the same place obviously. But nature God turned its way down and invited us to come and visit its own gifted and very awesome places in surrounding areas of Ooty. Probably these places would be still unknown to most of the people who had Visited Ooty. No more surprises on what that place is going to be? It’s a place called as ‘Western Catchment’. Is it place with full of waterfalls? Or is it a place with full of flowers? Or is it place surrounded with a huge lake?? Lot of thoughts went around in our mind when the trip organizer in Ooty (Kuttan – 9843558382) had mentioned about this place. Whether is it worth to visit that place? Whether it will convince our satisfaction? Finally after visiting that place nature God answered to all of our questions by not in words, but by the way we expressed our satisfaction and happiness. What a feel we had after reaching that place. I would say it’s an amazing spot and that day was an extraordinary moment in my life.
First and foremost I would tell you how to go to that place. It’s a valley region located near the Mukurthi national park. This place is located around 25 Kms from main Ooty. Take a Jeep and reach this park and then what is needed is bit of walk. Sorry not a bit but a distance of around 7Kms we have to cover by walk to reach this nature’s very best gifted place. Earlier Jeep can cover this 7Km as well. But recently there were some land slides and due to which at some point the road was not really helping vehicles to pass by. Hence to go and come back we have to walk 15 Kms (to & fro). The roadway is so nice and we can do a normal walk. Climbing or walking over a steep path is not there. At one point we have to be bit careful while crossing the road point which was hit by landslide. That’s not so risky anyways. Go with a bunch of friends and you can reach that place while chatting with your friends in parallel.
Secondly, the next doubt/concern what would arise is on how is that place is going to be? I am going to walk 15 Kms, so what do I get when I go there? Let me put to you in very simple words. It’s a greenish valley all the way around surrounding you when you walk 7 kms. One point you will feel does that greenish valley is chasing you!! It’s a reserved forest area and forest officers (1/2) will accompany you. So don’t get scared of anything. This trekking is very safe. When you go with your digital/handy camera, then your camera is one of the gifted devices I would say, as it’s going to perform lots of clicks on those greenish valleys. Everywhere you go and wherever you turn around you can see lots of greenish sceneries and you will be continuously doing clicks on your camera. Climate will be awesome as it’s a valley region and there will not be sweating also. So you can rock your trekking and continue to entertain your eyes and camera lens. Those greenish valleys will offer themselves as green carpets welcoming for a nice feast to our eyes and cameras. Since it’s a forest area and if you are really lucky, then you can get a chance to see some deers, tigers and wild buffalo’s. Fortunately we had a chance to see some 4/5 deers crossing us. While passing we can see some waterfalls and some plants of herbal types too. If the climate supports you then you will have an awesome time there. Photos, photos and everywhere different and mind-blowing landscapes. Go till the end, as the end point will be miraculous and amazing. Probably with a normal walk we can go there spend time and come back in 5/6 hours. 4 hrs for to & fro walk, 1 hr to spend in the end point, 30 mins for rest in-between and 30 mins for your camera clicks.
Kuttan, he is the trip organizer who has planned and organized this trekking idea for us. He is a very adjustable guy and his specialty is that he can organize the trips and choose the spots based on your taste and expectations.You can get in touch with him if you are impressed with the attached photos which are taken from those areas. He guides you for other normal places and other good trekking spots.
Reach Kuttan at
Mob - +91-9843558382,
Mail - kuttanooty@gmail.com
Blog website - http://ootytrekking.blogspot.com/
Thanks to God for taking us there and providing such a miraculous and unforgettable day.
When I planned my trip with my colleagues to Ooty, we have also decided to go and hit the same place obviously. But nature God turned its way down and invited us to come and visit its own gifted and very awesome places in surrounding areas of Ooty. Probably these places would be still unknown to most of the people who had Visited Ooty. No more surprises on what that place is going to be? It’s a place called as ‘Western Catchment’. Is it place with full of waterfalls? Or is it a place with full of flowers? Or is it place surrounded with a huge lake?? Lot of thoughts went around in our mind when the trip organizer in Ooty (Kuttan – 9843558382) had mentioned about this place. Whether is it worth to visit that place? Whether it will convince our satisfaction? Finally after visiting that place nature God answered to all of our questions by not in words, but by the way we expressed our satisfaction and happiness. What a feel we had after reaching that place. I would say it’s an amazing spot and that day was an extraordinary moment in my life.
First and foremost I would tell you how to go to that place. It’s a valley region located near the Mukurthi national park. This place is located around 25 Kms from main Ooty. Take a Jeep and reach this park and then what is needed is bit of walk. Sorry not a bit but a distance of around 7Kms we have to cover by walk to reach this nature’s very best gifted place. Earlier Jeep can cover this 7Km as well. But recently there were some land slides and due to which at some point the road was not really helping vehicles to pass by. Hence to go and come back we have to walk 15 Kms (to & fro). The roadway is so nice and we can do a normal walk. Climbing or walking over a steep path is not there. At one point we have to be bit careful while crossing the road point which was hit by landslide. That’s not so risky anyways. Go with a bunch of friends and you can reach that place while chatting with your friends in parallel.
Secondly, the next doubt/concern what would arise is on how is that place is going to be? I am going to walk 15 Kms, so what do I get when I go there? Let me put to you in very simple words. It’s a greenish valley all the way around surrounding you when you walk 7 kms. One point you will feel does that greenish valley is chasing you!! It’s a reserved forest area and forest officers (1/2) will accompany you. So don’t get scared of anything. This trekking is very safe. When you go with your digital/handy camera, then your camera is one of the gifted devices I would say, as it’s going to perform lots of clicks on those greenish valleys. Everywhere you go and wherever you turn around you can see lots of greenish sceneries and you will be continuously doing clicks on your camera. Climate will be awesome as it’s a valley region and there will not be sweating also. So you can rock your trekking and continue to entertain your eyes and camera lens. Those greenish valleys will offer themselves as green carpets welcoming for a nice feast to our eyes and cameras. Since it’s a forest area and if you are really lucky, then you can get a chance to see some deers, tigers and wild buffalo’s. Fortunately we had a chance to see some 4/5 deers crossing us. While passing we can see some waterfalls and some plants of herbal types too. If the climate supports you then you will have an awesome time there. Photos, photos and everywhere different and mind-blowing landscapes. Go till the end, as the end point will be miraculous and amazing. Probably with a normal walk we can go there spend time and come back in 5/6 hours. 4 hrs for to & fro walk, 1 hr to spend in the end point, 30 mins for rest in-between and 30 mins for your camera clicks.
Kuttan, he is the trip organizer who has planned and organized this trekking idea for us. He is a very adjustable guy and his specialty is that he can organize the trips and choose the spots based on your taste and expectations.You can get in touch with him if you are impressed with the attached photos which are taken from those areas. He guides you for other normal places and other good trekking spots.
Reach Kuttan at
Mob - +91-9843558382,
Mail - kuttanooty@gmail.com
Blog website - http://ootytrekking.blogspot.com/
Thanks to God for taking us there and providing such a miraculous and unforgettable day.
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